The only thing I will say is that I know several Millennial Witches and they all "want" different things... same with the "Boomer Witches" (if that's a term?)... and everybody in between.

There's a cool little black and white film called Mala Noche, an early work by Gus van Sant, that has as its subtitle the old saying "he who plays with the bull gets the horn." Lot of truth in that.